How many times do you need to make a decision and it seems either way you will benefit from action or inaction. Your dilemma goes back and forth in your head, you make lists of pros and cons and still cannot come to a decision. You seek out advice, or wish you could. You want to ask someone who knows, but who could you possibly ask that knows you better than you?
The most important aspect you want to pay attention and focus on is, feeling your way to the decision. Ask yourself, What would it feel like if I did not go through with it? Sit with that feeling for a little while, write down your feelings. Feel from within how that decision feels. Once you feel complete with the first scenario, ask yourself what it feels like going through with it? Sit with that decision for a little while, write down what feels wonderful about going through with it, make a list of the benefits.
There is no one outside of yourself who knows you better than you. When you make any decision out of fear, you lose your power from within to make a difference for yourself and you will not benefit from your decision made based in fear. When you are still, calm and quiet within, feeling your way into alignment, you hold the leverage that creates worlds.